Saturday, February 6, 2010

2010 Goals Update

In the interest of accountability, I've decided to disclose the progress of my 2010 goals from my previous post.  Just as a refresher, here's the list:

  1. Find a career that makes me excited to get up every morning;
  2. confront and accept the things that happened in the past;
  3. recognize and cultivate the healthy relationships in my life;
  4. cook a great meal at least once every two weeks;
  5. get up and get moving; and
  6. face the scary stuff
So, let's start with find a career that I am excited about.  I'm starting my own mediation business, with the help and encouragement of my bf, that I am SUPER excited about.  I've been struggling with finding a niche market, but I think I did it.  Now, I just need to put it together and make it happen.  Work, work, work.  I can do it.  My February modified goal is to have them both up and operable by the end of the month.  It's a short month, so I really need to get started!   I give myself a B+.

Next, is to confront and accept the things that happened to me in the past.  Well, having a type of amnesia makes confronting the past a little difficult, but I spend at least one hour a week, generally more, concentrating on trying to remember and confront.  This may take a couple years, but I'm on my way.  I give myself an A.
Third, is to recognize and cultivate the healthy relationships in my life.  I get a D in this goal.  I'm feeling a little anti-social at the moment.  I have spent time with a couple friends, but I need to do more.  I'm going to continue to work on it and strive for cultivating those healthy relationships. 

Fourth, is to cook a great meal at least once every two weeks.  I cook most meals at home these days, partially because of the next goal.  They're not always great tasting...but I try.   I give myself a C.

Next, is to get up and get moving.  I am on day 3 of P90X, and definitely feeling.  I give myself an A!

My last 2010 goal is to face the scary stuff.  Phew, my whole life is scary stuff, new business, new work-out, new past (oxymoron, I know), trusting in a relationship, trusting in myself, watching my friends advance in life all around me and knowing I'm not on the same path yet...sheesh, so much to face.  I give myself a B.  Room for improvement!! 

Overall, I think I'm at a B-. 

I leave you with this tidbit of wisdome I need to remember:

 

1 comment:

BrandNewbian said...

It's funny that you say that you are watching your friends advance around you and you feel like you are not on that same path yet....I always feel that way when I think of you! You are amazing!